Sunday, January 10, 2010

In memory of Ray

My exhusband just passed away so I thought I might start my blog with a tribute to him. His name was Ray DeFoy. We got together in 1998. That was the year my mom passed away. Like my mom's passing, Ray's passing was a terrible blow to me. I had known him a total of 11 years. 8 of those years we lived together and were married for 7 of those 8 years. We divorced in 2006 but we parted as friends. He helped to raise my twins who were 7 at the time of our get together and now today, my twins turn 18 and Ray misses their big birthday and graduation this spring. Yea, Ray and I have had alot of good times and bad times but we got through them together. Ray changed our lives. He will be missed. Ray DeFoy
June 22, 1944-December 29, 2009


1 comment:

  1. Sis,
    I'm sorry to hear about the passing of Ray, I know when the time comes for my ex's it will be hard for me also! You have all the good memories to put a smile on your face when you think of him,and that's comforting in it's own.
    I'm happy to hear that it's your twins 18th birthday! Are you having a party for them? Now they can come visit you anytime...or will they come live with you? I know you would love that!!!
    Jane, I'm only a phone call away, even if you just call and ask me to come online, or call you back, if you want to talk.
    I Love You...and have a GOOD day with the kids!

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